"Perhaps" - A Funny or a Disasterous Word

Ek Onkaar                          Jai Maa Lakshami

In India, it is Tuesday, 29^th Dec 2015 & time is 10:35 pm 

This word ”Perhaps” , in Hindi meaning “Shayad”, is very funny word. Some use it to express grief, while some use it offer apologies & some use it as a weapon to save them from the scolding of boss, or parents or wife. I mean to say that different people use it in different occasions as per their need to fulfill their objectives.

But today I am writing this to you convey a sad story about a teenage boy, 15, who committed suicide simply because his mother snatched away his cell phone from him as he was not studying all day & was busy chatting with his friends on face book, twitter, what’s app since past few days. Agreed that X-Mas Vacations have begun but you should continue with your daily study routine at any cost & should never give-up on an excuse of vacations. Mother tried to discipline her kid & he gave her the biggest shock of her life as his father has already passed away two years ago & now his mother is left all alone in this world. Now his mother would regret all her life “Perhaps” if she would not have snatched away cell phone from her son then he would not have committed this extreme act. But I would say that he’s a “foolish” who has taken such a big step on the wise step of her mother.

Now I am very much shocked at this, I mean to say that what has happened to today’s teenagers is it a crime to discipline them & show them the right way. Where his mother was wrong is snatching away his cell phone from him so that her son could sit down with peace of mind & study for next few hours? While she had gone outside for some work. I don’t know why today’s generation have made life so cheap, life & that too a human life is God’s most precious gift to us & how can we show such a big disrespect to it.

Please share your opinions with me without any hesitation…

Here’s wishing you all a very happy & prosperous new year from your blog host & dost with a promise that we will meet again in new year with new energy, enthusiasm, happiness, courage & best wishes to deal with our new & old challenges of life…

My only advice to all my friends, followers & well wishers of my blog is “Never Give Up, Before Going Up (Heaven)…”

Be Careful While Sharing "Personal" Content (With Correction & Modification)

                                                   Ek Onkaar                          Jai Maa Lakshami

In India, it’s Christmas, Thursday 25/12/2015 & time is 1am

On this festive occasion & on this happy day, when everyone expects happiness & prosperity in his/her life as X-Mas also marks beginning of new year in next few days & with festivities & happiness all around I am penning down this article specially for my female fans & followers & also for my male fans who are addicted to social networking sites & their cell phones & for those who think that cell phone is a must for them as it’s their only way to connect with the outside world, for them I wish to say that entire world cannot come down to a cell phone itself & there’s a world outside this 5 inch gadget which is “very cruel, selfish & betraying”. I am not discouraging you all, but I am penning down the truth…if you don’t believe me…then read this true story…

Raj, a teenage boy, was a college going brilliant boy who was always concerned with his studies & for him the world was limited to “text books” but he had a wrong & dangerous habit of “gambling”. He was a brilliant student who always stood first in the class but his friends’ circle especially Sumit & Amit were not good as they had dragged him into the habit of gambling. Slowly, his debt of gambling has gone by Rs.20000/- & Shera, the owner of the casino, where he used to visit for this practice was demanding his money back & one day suddenly he saw “something” in his cell phone which was “obscene pictures” of his girl friend Suniti & then Shera said “Okay I forgive all your debt, but I need some bold vide stuff of this girl”, Raj tried to convince Shera that this was strictly personal & that she was his girl friend so how can he “defame & destroy” her life to which Shera replied if you will not get me what I want then I will destroy your entire life otherwise I will call your parents & let them know everything about their “obedient” boy. Raj was completely scared & he had no option but to “give up” to indecent demands of Shera.

This “ungentlemanly act” earned him great sums of money, name & fame in his friend’s circle & in the Shera’s casino. Now over time Raj’s courage got increased & he tried this with other girls also named Rashmi, Priya, Amrita, Shweta & so on. One day accidently Suniti came cross this “obscene content” on his cell phone while Raj was taking a shower at his home. She  was shocked & she immediately confided to her parents about all this & her parents sought the help of an NGO & launched FIR against Raj  in the local police station & Inspector Amit Agarwal arrested Raj & put him behind the bars & through Raj they also arrested Shera &  their entire gang who were indulged in all these “indecent” practices & got all this content removed from their social networking accounts & the Net.

So my dear friends, followers & well wishers on this festive occasion I Just want to say that there’s no harm in exchange of “decent & clean” content on the cell phone or the Net with your friends, but whenever he/she demands something “very intimate or very personal or obscene” never share that content with him/her or give up to his/her “indecent demands” because this act of your can land you up in big trouble… keep enjoying, laughing & be cool on this Christmas Season & get ready to celebrate New Year in next few days but with a “caution”. Always remember, prevention is better than cure…..

Please note that names have been changed to preserve actual identity & secrecy of the concerned people, but it’s a true story

With loads of love, care, concern & best wishes from your blog host & dost

Dupendar Singh Virdi

Be Careful While Sharing "Personal" Content

                                            Ek Onkaar                          Jai Maa Lakshami

In India, it’s Christmas Eve, Wednesday 24/12/2015 & time is 11:50 pm

On this festive occasion & on this happy day, when everyone expects happiness & prosperity in his/her life as X-Mas also marks beginning of new year in next few days & with festivities & happiness all around I am penning down this article specially for my female fans & followers & also for my male fans who are addicted to social networking sites & their cell phones & for those who think that cell phone is a must for them as it’s their only way to connect with the outside world, for them I wish to say that entire world cannot come down to a cell phone itself & there’s a world outside this 5 inch gadget which is “very cruel, selfish & betraying”. I am not discouraging you all, but I am penning down the truth…if you don’t believe me…then read this true story…

Raj, a teenage boy, was a college going brilliant boy who was always concerned with his studies & for him the world was limited to “text books” but he had a wrong & dangerous habit of “gambling”. He was a brilliant student who always stood first in the class but his friends’ circle especially Sumit & Amit were not good as they had dragged him into the habit of gambling. Slowly, his debt of gambling has gone by Rs.20000/- & Shera, the owner of the casino, where he used to visit for this practice was demanding his money back & one day suddenly he saw “something” in his cell phone which was “obscene pictures” of his girl friend Suniti & then Shera said “Okay I forgive all your debt, but I need some bold vide stuff of this girl”, Raj tried to convince Shera that this was strictly personal & that she was his girl friend so how can he “defame & destroy” her life to which Shera replied if you will not get me what I want then I will destroy your entire life otherwise I will call your parents & let them know everything about their “obedient” boy. Raj was completely scared & he had no option but to “give up” to indecent demands of Shera.

This “ungentlemanly act” earned him great sums of money, name & fame in his friend’s circle & in the Shera’s casino. Now over time Raj’s courage got increased & he tried this with other girls also named Rashmi, Priya, Amrita, Shweta & so on. One day accidently Suniti came cross this “obscene content” on his cell phone while Raj was taking a shower at his home. She  was shocked & she immediately confided to her parents about all this & her parents sought the help of an NGO & launched FIR against Raj  in the local police station & Inspector Amit Agarwal arrested Raj & put him behind the bars & through Raj they also arrested Shera &  their entire gang who were indulged in all these “indecent” practices & got all this content removed from their social networking accounts & the Net.

So my dear friends, followers & well wishers on this festive occasion I Just want to say that there’s no harm in exchange of “decent & clean” content on the cell phone or the Net with your friends, but whenever he/she demands something “very intimate or very personal or obscene” never share that content with him/her or give up to his/her “indecent demands” because this act of your can land you up in big trouble… keep enjoying, laughing & be cool on this Christmas Season & get ready to celebrate New Year in next few days but with a “caution”. Always remember, prevention is better than cure…..

With loads of love, care, concern & best wishes from your blog host & dost

Dupendar Singh Virdi

SOMETIMES REJECTION LEADS TO ACCEPTANCE

                             EK ONKAAR                        JAI MAA LAKSHAMI

In India, it’s Tuesday, 8^th Dec, 2015 & time is 6:30 pm.

Today I  am back after many days to talk my heart out to you all, I know that I had posted on my blog on 15^th Nov 2015 & after that day, there was a huge gap &  I do understand, but sometimes your personal & social responsibilities assume greater importance than your hobbies or obsession. Actually I was very busy in some “urgent” job & now that job has been accomplished I am back to talk my heart out to you, but one thing is for “certain” that at least for now I cannot talk to you regularly, I will be coming back between intervals.

Well today I am back to share another true life love story with you all & its about three people – Prakash, Drsihti & Naina.

So let’s put our car in the 1^st gear & see what was life for these three…so here we go…

Today it was a lovely chilly morning with some cold breeze blowing outside & it was a wonderful day of 5^th Jan & time was 10:30 am while Prakash was sitting in the cash counter of his elder brother Ramesh’s Gift Shop “Nazrana” when a lovely & innocent looking girl came in & selected  teddy bear as gift for her friend’s birthday gift tonight. Prakash was just staring at her when she came to make the payment of the same & could hardly speakout any word. She was looking so beautiful in light pink colored salwar kameez & chunri with black sandals & red bindi on her forehead & black bangles in her hands. So this is how he first met Drishti.

So this was his 1^st interaction with her…

After few days, again Drsihti visited his gift shop this time to buy a pair of bangles & today Prakash did not forget to ask her name & she replied “Drishti” with a slight smile on her face & she perhaps understood & realized the fact that Prakash has “fallen” for her & this is the reason that next time when Prakash tried to get little friendly with him, she replied in a bit rude manner “See I am younger than you by few years & moreover neither have I completed my schooling nor I am 18 so you have to search for someone who’s of your age & who understands you in a much better way. I know that I am breaking your heart today, but tomorrow you will thank me for my truthfulness…” & came out of his shop & it seems that that day she had visited “Nazrana” to clear Prakash’s doubt only, as after that day she never visited.

Prakash was all shattered as “Drishti” was his 1^st love & his 1^st love turned out to be “a loss”, but he had to survive in this world because love is not heart of life, love is a part of life as his elder brother Ramesh made him realize this fact & brought him back to life, world & normal daily routine & it took 25 days for Prakash to recover from this shock of love.

Then after few days, Ramesh informed Prakash that he has enrolled his name in “Genius Spoken English Classes” in the evening from 5 pm to 7:30 pm where he can join & learn fluent English speaking. So he started going to these classes & slowly but steadily another girl named “Naina” was closely watching Prakash & when the result came out for the 1^st Improvement Test, she tried to be friend him as he was the 2^nd highest scorer after Prakash in the entire class of 35 students, so this is how she established a bond of friendship with him.

Soon they began to talk on cell, then on FB & What’s App over night & so they came closer & found that their interests, hobbies & nature were similar in many aspects & even their pint of view was also similar regarding many matter relating to the nation, politics, sports, growth, inflation & so on.

So they informed their respective families & there was “no objection” from any of the parties so they decided to get married after few years although the formality of “engagement” was completed once both of them get settled in their respective life & find a good job as per their qualification & area of specialization.

So guys if you get rejected once or many times in life don’t feel disheartened & as if everything has came to a halt, just move on in life & you may never know who’s made for you only & may be waiting to come in your life so the morale of the story is that “rejection leads to acceptance”.